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Wedding Recap: Behind the Door

December 9, 2010 by Julie 89 Comments

Before our wedding day a wonderful blog reader, Holly, commented with a story about how she and her husband-to-be shared special moment before they walked down the aisle together.

In her words:

“I just got married three months ago…My husband and I didn’t want to see each other before the wedding, but there was a picture that I wanted. It was us standing on either side of the door to the “bridal suite,” unable to see each other, but holding hands through a small crack in the door. The photographer was able to capture pictures of both of our faces, and then our hands together. It was at this moment that I became so excited and realized how much I missed him and couldn’t wait to see him at the end of the aisle about thirty minutes from that point. My voice was shaky when I responded to him saying “Hey, babe” which is what he always says, and I became all teary. I will remember that moment as long as I live.”

(You may see a couple of her pictures here.)

After reading Holly’s story, how could I not want to emulate that magical moment?

I spoke with our photographer beforehand and Ryan and I arranged to take a similar picture about 40 minutes before I walked down the aisle.

At around 4:50 p.m. on our wedding day, I heard one of my bridesmaids call out “He’s coming!” I could feel my whole body come alive with excitement.

I stood on the other side of a big, white wooden door, waiting to hear his voice.

When he said “Hi Sweetie,” I felt my eyes fill with tears.

I reached out for his hand and felt his warm touch immediately. 007_BehindtheDoorMy eyes began to water.003_BehindtheDoorRight before Ryan arrived, we had a little bit of a stressful situation occur involving the inability to get a key to lock up the room where we had all of my stuff and my bridesmaids belongings. (It sounds silly I know, but it was stressful at the time.) Through the frenzy, I kept thinking “I just want to talk Ryan.”

Finally I was able to talk to the one person who always knows how to calm me down and make all of my worries subside.

I was able to touch him and feel his gentle squeezes.

005_BehindtheDoor004_BehindtheDoor After snapping a couple of pictures, our photographer said something wonderful.

“Why don’t we just give them a minute?” 002_BehindtheDoor The moment that everyone left the room was so precious to me.

We were alone.

I started really crying. Happy tears. Tears of excitement and tears of sheer readiness. Ryan squeezed my hand and told me he couldn’t wait to become my husband.001_BehindtheDoor

I couldn’t wait to become his wife.

To be continued…

(All photos courtesy of the amazing Gina Leigh.)

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Comments

  1. steph says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:17 pm

    that was one of the cutest things ive ever read.

    Reply
  2. alex says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:19 pm

    well, i know have full on tears in my eyes.
    sweetest thing ever.

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    • alex says

      December 10, 2010 at 3:20 pm

      *now

      Reply
  3. Chelsey says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:20 pm

    This is the BEST! I am not yet engaged, but I think I’ll be keeping this idea in mind for when I do get married to my wonderful boyfriend! BEAUTIFUL! 🙂

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    • peanutbutterfingers says

      December 10, 2010 at 3:23 pm

      you have to do it… i will forever remember the moment when everyone left the room and we could just talk, laugh and cry together… just the two of us.

      Reply
  4. Lo says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:21 pm

    this is so incredibly sweet! i love it!

    Reply
  5. Katy (The Singing Runner) says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:22 pm

    This is absolutely adorable. When I first read Holly’s comment, I knew that I want to have that same picture whenever I get married!

    The pictures are absolutely gorgeous and I love both of your expressions. 🙂

    Reply
  6. Jackie (ananda prana) says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:24 pm

    So beautiful! I’m tearing up at work 😉

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  7. Stefanie says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:25 pm

    Oh my gosh! Those pictures turned out wonderful! I can’t wait for the rest… 🙂

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  8. Erica says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:30 pm

    Very touching, now I just hope no one comes into my office as I try to pull myself back together. That is such an amazing moment that I too hope to experience soon.

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  9. Alicia says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:31 pm

    such a cute idea!! totally borrowing it someday!

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  10. Alexis says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:35 pm

    crying at my desk. lol. very cute!

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  11. Jess says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:36 pm

    What a great idea! I love your wedding recaps..Your pictures are beautiful and really showcase how much you two love each other 🙂

    Reply
  12. Maria @ Oh Healthy Day says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:37 pm

    So beautiful! I’ve been planning on doing this at my wedding too.

    Can’t wait to see your other photos as well 🙂

    Reply
  13. Molly says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:38 pm

    This is happening at my wedding. Those pictures are to die!

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  14. Holly says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:41 pm

    Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful 😀
    I think my favorite is the first one..but also the fourth one- I love Ryan’s expression in it. It’s like you can just FEEL his love for you.
    Gorgeous Julie, absolutely gorgeous!!

    Reply
  15. Sarra says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:47 pm

    Love love love love love love love x a million!!!!

    Reply
  16. Amanda (Eating Up) says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:52 pm

    Awww that was such a cute telling of that story!

    Reply
  17. Liz says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:52 pm

    Aw, these are adorable. When you look at the 5th one quickly, it looks like you’re almost going to make the turn to the other side of the door. I was like ‘no, don’t do it!’

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    • peanutbutterfingers says

      December 10, 2010 at 3:55 pm

      haha i wanted to SO badly! i did show him my shoes. 😉

      Reply
  18. sassy molassy says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:58 pm

    Aw, that is so sweet! I love the story and the adorable photos.

    Reply
  19. Bee Goes Bananas says

    December 10, 2010 at 3:59 pm

    Wow, this is one of the most powerful posts I’ve read in a long time! I’m even getting butterflies thinking about my big day. I hope to do something like this for our wedding! The pictures are so lovely Julie! You must be so happy!

    Reply
  20. Caree @ Fit-Mama says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:08 pm

    that story just made my day!!! 🙂

    Reply
  21. Michelle says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:08 pm

    Damn … you made me cry at work!

    It looked liked a beautiful moment and one that the two of you will always cherish.

    Reply
  22. Mariana says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:12 pm

    Awwwwwww so sweet!

    Reply
  23. Heather (Heather's Dish) says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:15 pm

    um, you shouldn’t make me cry at work 🙂

    Reply
  24. Emma (Sweet Tooth Runner) says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:32 pm

    Oh seriously Julie your wedding posts never fail to make me cry! So beautiful! 🙂

    Reply
  25. Allie (Live Laugh Eat) says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:41 pm

    Waterproof makeup is on my wedding to-buy list 🙂 So sweet.

    Reply
  26. Leanne says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:42 pm

    oh my god… im adding this to my wedding day. What a fantastic idea.

    Reply
  27. Shayla says

    December 10, 2010 at 4:53 pm

    Wow this totally made me cry!!! So beautiful and sweet Julie – I wish I did this for my wedding! Can’t wait for the next part of your recaps 🙂

    Reply
  28. Ebru says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:03 pm

    This was just precious Julie! Love your photos, too cute for words!!!! 🙂

    Reply
  29. Mary @ Bites and Bliss says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:15 pm

    That’s beautiful. I can almost feel the happiness as corny as that sounds. I mean, seeing someone is one thing..but feeling them without seeing them is so much more. Especially when it’s in a situation like that. Gorgeous 🙂 Thank you for posting this.

    Reply
  30. Angela says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:25 pm

    Oh my goodness, so sweet! Tears!

    Reply
  31. janetha g. @ meals & moves says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:27 pm

    dangit this made me bawl like a baby. i love it!

    Reply
  32. Katie @ Healthy Heddleston says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:29 pm

    This is one of the photos we forgot to do 🙁

    Reply
  33. Hope says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:41 pm

    This is so incredibly beautiful! I am trying to hold back tears at work. I totally want to do this when I get married. I think it so sentimental and special 🙂

    Reply
  34. Clare @ Fitting It All In says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:48 pm

    *When* I get married, I’m definitely doing that same thing. The pictures are just…beautiful. I say that about every single wedding picture you post!

    Reply
  35. Marlo says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:52 pm

    Tears!!! Ah…… These wedding posts make me cry! Blast!

    Reply
  36. Jaime says

    December 10, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    Holy Cow, Julie. I don’t know that I’ve ever cried/teared up so much on any post!!! WOW!!! Those pictures are amazing and you can just see the love/excitement/emotions in your faces in the pictures. Beautiful!!

    Reply
  37. Fallon says

    December 10, 2010 at 6:14 pm

    That is so sweet. Something I will keep in mind for my big day one day. 😉

    Reply
  38. Nancy K @ NancysPerfect10 says

    December 10, 2010 at 6:26 pm

    AWW, this is so special! I teared up.

    Reply
  39. BIOCHEMISTA says

    December 10, 2010 at 9:56 pm

    No lie, I just got so choked up when I read this!!!! LOL, I’m such a sap 🙂

    Reply
  40. molly says

    December 11, 2010 at 12:45 am

    Oh man you made me tear up. Those pictures are absolutely beautiful and such a great idea. I hope to remember to do this when I, if I, ever get married.

    Reply
  41. Marie says

    December 11, 2010 at 1:53 am

    This is absolutely beautiful; such a wonderful idea! The pictures came out perfect!

    Reply
  42. Melissa says

    December 11, 2010 at 11:06 am

    What a beautiful moment! Brings tears to my eyes to feel the love and happiness you two share!

    Reply
  43. Jenna says

    December 11, 2010 at 1:23 pm

    What a moment! I wish you two all the best!

    Reply
  44. megan says

    December 11, 2010 at 6:24 pm

    this is too adorable. that stressful situation definitely made for some of my favorite pictures on your special day. as ironic as that is! you guys are so cute & i’m very happy for you both! good luck with everything!!

    Reply
  45. Jamie @ Food in Real Life says

    December 11, 2010 at 6:39 pm

    total sobfest! this is so sweet julie!

    Reply
  46. Nicola says

    December 11, 2010 at 8:17 pm

    aw wow that is so sweet. what a beautiful moment

    Reply
  47. Jessica says

    December 12, 2010 at 8:58 pm

    i am totally doing this on my wedding day! how romantic!!

    Reply
  48. Kate @ahealthypassion says

    December 13, 2010 at 12:46 am

    what a great idea. your pictures are beautiful!

    Reply
  49. Chicago Cuisine Critique says

    December 13, 2010 at 1:50 pm

    This is so sweet. What great pictures to capture the moment. I’m so glad you recreated that idea, it really is a great one.

    Reply
  50. Cassie says

    December 29, 2010 at 11:00 am

    This made me tear up. What a sweet moment!

    Reply
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