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Wedding Recap: Getting Ready

December 7, 2010 by Julie 92 Comments

Last night after receiving a disk of images from our wedding from our photographer in the mail, all I wanted to do was blog, blog, blog about our special day.

I’ve been waiting for the pictures for five weeks (not long by wedding photography standards) and have SO much I’ve been longing to share with you!

I’ve decided to break my wedding recap up into a few posts, so let’s get started with post numero uno… the “Getting Ready” post!

002_GettingReadyThose of you who were following my blog on our wedding day know that I wasn’t exactly in top form on the day I was to say “I do.” The Thursday before our big day, I was puking non-stop, and then I woke up the day before our wedding with a crusty pink eye.

A visit to an emergency care clinic informed me that I had pink eye, but my bridesmaid Michaela, who is in her final year of optometry school, said that it looked more like a virus that likely traveled to my eye. I didn’t know viruses could do that, but apparently they’re mobile little buggers. 

Equipped with antibiotic eye drops and anti-nausea medication, I was ready to get married!

I woke up at 6:45 a.m. on the morning of our wedding to give myself time to shower, assemble my bridesmaid gifts and pack a bag for the wedding night. My mom, sister and I met my bridesmaids at the Renaissance Vinoy Resort and Golf Club to get ready at 8 a.m.

We had one lady to do all of our hair and one lady to do all of our make up and rotated around until we were all done. I was second to last for both. 038_GettingReadyHow beautiful is my sister? 035_GettingReady

She gets her beauty from our mama. 😀

As I waited for my turn, I was surprised at just how calm I felt.

I wasn’t nervous. I was ready. Ready to walk down the aisle. Ready to see Ryan. Ready to be married.

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I think feeling so sick two days before our wedding and praying to simply be healthy enough to walk down the aisle helped put things into perspective and made me realize that flowers, dresses and logistics are not important in the long run.

I told my family and my bridesmaids that all I wanted was to be physically well enough to walk down the aisle and become Ryan’s wife.

While everyone got their hair and makeup done, we had quite a few friends and family stop by, which was wonderful. I loved having our room open to others and spending such an exciting time with not only my immediate family and my bridesmaids, but some of my best friends from college, my aunts and my grandma as well, was amazing. 

I will forever cherish the time I spent on my wedding day simply talking with my bridesmaids. I’ve known four of my bridesmaids since elementary school and they live several hundred miles away, so having them there to support me meant the world.004_GettingReady

008_GettingReady 010_GettingReadyDuring the time spent getting ready, Ryan and I also exchanged our wedding gifts to each other. Though we didn’t see each other before we walked down the aisle, we had my dad and one of Ryan’s groomsmen deliver the gifts for us. We both surprised each other with a watch! Apparently we were on the same page. (You may see a close-up of my watch here. Love it.)

Before I knew it, my turn with the hair and make up ladies arrived. I was nervous about how it would go, as I wear minimal makeup and didn’t want to feel like a clown. Plus, Ryan prefers me without makeup, and I didn’t want him thinking Bozo was walking down the aisle to become his wife!

Let’s just say that once my makeup was done, I wasn’t overjoyed with the result. I felt a little flustered and went into the bathroom to “fix it.” My bridesmaids and sister did an amazing job of helping me feel a million times better and assured me that I looked like myself. (Note to future brides: Be 100 percent satisfied with your makeup trial or find someone else. If I could go back I actually would have done my own makeup, though it ended up okay in the end.)

It was at the end of the makeup drama that my dad arrived. 019_GettingReadyHe couldn’t have come at a better time.

He made me laugh and told me I looked beautiful. I finally felt beautiful.

My mom, sister, dad and I then shared a private moment in the hall that I’m so grateful our photographer captured. 020_GettingReadyWe were telling my mother how amazing she looked.

If I remember how one person looked on the day of my wedding other than Ryan, it will be my mother. When she walked out in her dress, my sister and I started crying. Tears filled our eyes because we couldn’t help but think about how far she’s come in the past two years in her fight against breast cancer. It was such an overwhelming moment and I will always treasure that memory and the intense gratitude I felt for being able to share my wedding day with my mother.

And then it was time for me to slip into my dress. 012_DetailsI wore an ivory James Clifford strapless gown with a sweetheart neckline. The dress had a scalloped re-embroidered lace bodice with an Empire waistline, matching scalloped lace hemline and a chapel length train. The dress itself had a mermaid silhouette, but I had the hips taken out a bit to give it an A-line shape.

015_Details My “something old” was sewn into my dress. 016_DetailsMy mom and sister surprised me with a piece of my mother’s wedding dress embroidered with my initials and wedding date in baby blue (my “something blue”). My mother sewed it into my dress on the spot.

My “something borrowed” was my sister’s delicate pearl bracelet.  040_GettingReadyMy mom and sister helped me into my gown and I could feel the excitement rush through my body. 009_GettingReadyI was about to get married!!!

After slipping on my blush pink wedding shoes, fastening my veil and and pulling up my garter, I was ready to walk down the aisle.

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052_GettingReady To be continued…

(All photos courtesy of the amazing Gina Leigh.)

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Comments

  1. Katie @ Healthy Heddleston says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:06 pm

    Gorgeous! Loved the recap 🙂

    Reply
  2. Bess @ Bess Be Fit says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:07 pm

    so beautiful!! You, your mother, your sister, and all your bridesmaids looked just gorgeous. I can’t wait to see the rest of the pictures! This totally makes me wanna get married, lol 🙂

    Reply
  3. Sarra says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:07 pm

    I love everything!!!! I love how you and your hubby are always in sync with each other! 🙂 And I LOVE the “something old” sewed into your dress. Just brilliant. You are a gorgeous bride 🙂

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 7, 2010 at 10:11 pm

      i thought that was so creative, too. they did a wonderful job!

      Reply
  4. Annette says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:09 pm

    WOW! Holy gorgeous! Love all the pics and you look stunning. I love the picture of your shoes and garter….it was just a cool look.

    Reply
  5. Katy (The Singing Runner) says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:13 pm

    Absolutely breathtaking! I can’t wait to read more posts! Thank you for sharing your special day with us. 🙂 I feel honored.

    Reply
  6. Kristina says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:15 pm

    You’re dress is my dream dress. It’s exactly what I have imaged having, so I may have to write down a few things for the future 😉 You looked beautiful and thank you so much for sharing all of these with us.

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 7, 2010 at 10:16 pm

      thank you so much. i actually REALLY struggled to find it and changed the overall shape of the dress to make it exactly what i wanted. 🙂

      Reply
      • Kristina says

        December 8, 2010 at 3:11 am

        Well it was definitely well worth the struggle! You honestly look better than the model on the website!

        Reply
  7. Lauren S. says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:19 pm

    Julie, that photo of you looking off to the side and smiling is so beyond gorgeous!

    Reply
  8. Mary @ Bites and Bliss says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:21 pm

    Drop.dead.GORGEOUS!! So amazing, all of it! Glad you got the little make-up mishap straightened out, too. Professionals really know what they’re doing..but sometimes their work just doesn’t fit your opinion. Ahhh you look so excited!

    Reply
  9. Cynthia says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:23 pm

    I had tears reading this post! I can’t believe this will be me in 4 months!! Congrats again 🙂

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 8:58 am

      congrats!!!

      Reply
  10. BIOCHEMISTA says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:24 pm

    Julie, you were seriously the most BEAUTIFUL bride. I love every single element of your dress, hair, bridesmaid’s dresses, etc. Will you be my wedding planner????? 🙂 🙂

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 8:58 am

      hahaha i LOVED every part of wedding planning! it is so fun to be creative and finally have your vision come to fruition!

      Reply
  11. Alicia says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:25 pm

    Amazing photos!! Everything is so beautiful!! 🙂 LOVE YOUR DRESS!

    Reply
  12. Sarah Elizabeth says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:30 pm

    What beautiful photographs! I just watched the wedding video you posted – so sweet! You and Ryan seem like you’re great together, and it seems like you had a fantastic day to celebrate that. Your dress – and shoes! – were gorgeous, I love how you did your hair, and your bridesmaids looked fantastic too! Congratulations!!!

    Reply
  13. Mariana says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:36 pm

    Oh Julie, you looked beautiful. Thank you for sharing those moments .

    Reply
  14. Bee Goes Bananas says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:38 pm

    WOW Julie! These photos are simply stunning! I can’t wait for my big day. You look so happy and excited in all of the pictures! I can’t wait to see more!

    Reply
  15. Erin says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:42 pm

    Aww yaaaay wedding pictures!! Love them!! I just had to go back and look at mine again….makes happy tears stream down my face everytime 🙂

    Reply
  16. LoLo says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:45 pm

    YAY!! I am so excited we get to enjoy your perfect, wonderful, amazing day through pictures 😀 You look amazing in all of them and it looks like it was such a beautiful wedding!! Congrats again 🙂

    Reply
  17. Courtney @ Sweet Tooth, Sweet Life says

    December 7, 2010 at 10:59 pm

    Beautiful photos!
    I actually had the same thing happen to me with my makeup on my wedding day. I should have known better, but I had someone else do it for me and I ended up hating it. I’ve been doing my own makeup for years, so I promptly went into the bathroom (after semi-freaking out) and fixed it myself.
    I agree…DEFINITELY know that you’re 100% happy with the makeup BEFORE the big day! 🙂

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 8:59 am

      i feel ya on the semi-freak out!

      Reply
  18. carlee says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:07 pm

    Wow! Stunning is the only word I can say!
    I’m so nervous at my wedding they will catch me at all my bad angles! lol

    and your sister is ridiculously gorgeous! I’m super jealous!

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 9:00 am

      the good news is wedding photographers take a billion pictures, so you can simply thow away the “bad angle” photos. 😉

      Reply
      • carlee says

        December 8, 2010 at 4:16 pm

        thats good! lol I’ll need that! and yeah I’m sure they take 30 just about ever minute! lol now that i come to think of it. You make me so excited for my wedding!

        Reply
  19. Teshon says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:08 pm

    Truly beautiful pictures! I’d have to say my favorite is actually the one pre-dress in the tank. And your sister’s eyes are stunning in the makeup pic. Glad everything turned out’

    Reply
  20. Healthy Chocoholic says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:19 pm

    everything is sooo gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!! you’re wedding was beautiful!

    Reply
  21. Shannon @ Philadelphia Phitness Pharmacy says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:30 pm

    Great first recap! I feel like I’m actually there and I’m about to see you “get married”!

    Reply
  22. Laura says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:37 pm

    Love, Love, Love! Your sister’s blue eyes are amazing. Your dress is gorgeous. And your shoes – Amazing!

    It’s so wonderful how you took time to cherish your mom on your wedding day. My father passed away before I was even engaged, and I missed him terribly on my wedding day. I was a daddy’s girl, so it was incredibly hard to not have him there to celebrate with us. I love reading about the close bonds you share with your family – family is so precious.

    Reply
  23. Bb says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:37 pm

    You Looked soo beautiful your wedding was so amazing !! I Will be compulsively reloading your site checking for more wedding pics ! It Must be so fun reliving each part while you write the recaps !

    Reply
  24. VeggieGirl says

    December 7, 2010 at 11:39 pm

    Julie, you are BEYOND stunning!!!

    Reply
  25. Allie (Live Laugh Eat) says

    December 8, 2010 at 12:01 am

    Wow you have an amazing photographer. I love how carefully you planned (and remembered) the details. Won’t it be fun to look back on these posts in the future? Like 50 years from now!!??

    Reply
  26. Shanna, like Banana says

    December 8, 2010 at 12:24 am

    Ahhh lovely my dear! So lovely! And what a wonderful family you have. So happy for your love!

    Reply
  27. ellie says

    December 8, 2010 at 12:24 am

    All your photos are gorgeous! I get teary eyed just looking at them. It’s so wonderful how you and Ryan are just perfect together and seem to be on the same page as each other, all the time! You are lucky! 😉
    Congratulations again.

    Reply
  28. Heather (Heather's Dish) says

    December 8, 2010 at 12:29 am

    i know i’ve said it a million times, but your wedding was STUNNING. your dress was perfect, your hair, makeup, everything. can we time travel and you can plan my wedding for me in 2007? 🙂

    Reply
  29. Charlotte says

    December 8, 2010 at 1:12 am

    Great photos – thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  30. Rachelle says

    December 8, 2010 at 2:17 am

    All so beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  31. Hillary [Nutrition Nut on the Run] says

    December 8, 2010 at 3:59 am

    you picked a winner of a photographer – stunning!!

    Reply
  32. Mama says

    December 8, 2010 at 7:10 am

    Beautiful post. More tears, but wonderful ones! xo

    Reply
    • Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 9:01 am

      love you, mama! 🙂

      Reply
  33. Lauren says

    December 8, 2010 at 7:49 am

    I am so happy you are doing this. You will cherish these memories forever and how awesome that you have a place to relive these memories. Can’t wait to see more!!!!

    Reply
  34. Melissa says

    December 8, 2010 at 8:11 am

    Stunning! Really, what beautiful photos! You must be thrilled. Thanks for sharing, Julie! 🙂

    Reply
  35. Liz says

    December 8, 2010 at 8:36 am

    I love your pics! My husband and I got married at the Vinoy almost 2 years ago. The venue is absolutely breathtaking!

    Reply
  36. keri says

    December 8, 2010 at 8:55 am

    Amazing, beautiful pictures!!

    Reply
  37. Gabriela @ Une Vie Saine says

    December 8, 2010 at 9:05 am

    This photos are BEAUTIFUL and made me so teary-eyed. Weddings are such an incredibly special thing…I wish you and Ryan all the happiness in the world!!

    Reply
  38. Hope says

    December 8, 2010 at 9:07 am

    Beautiful pictures! I love that your mom sewed your intials into your dress! So thoughtful! I really like your shoes too! 🙂

    Reply
  39. Steph says

    December 8, 2010 at 9:12 am

    Julie, your pictures are beautiful, and you my dear are elegant!

    I’m going to be the 20th person to say this, but I love the part of your mom’s dress sewn into your dress. That is unbelievably special

    Reply
  40. Michelle says

    December 8, 2010 at 9:44 am

    This is my favorite post you’ve ever done! Your photos are absolutely beautiful, as are you 🙂 I wish I had read this at home so I wouldn’t have gotten all teary eyed at work!!

    Reply
  41. Kimberly says

    December 8, 2010 at 9:58 am

    Congratulations, Julie! You were a beautiful bride! Thanks for sharing your pics and your special day with us. It is truly a day to treasure, especially when you marry your best friend. I have been reading for a while, but this is my first comment. Keep up the good work 🙂

    -Kim

    Reply
  42. Laurie says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:12 am

    WOW! You and your family are so beautiful! Thanks for sharing on your special day!

    Reply
  43. Tina @ Faith Fitness Fun says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:18 am

    Those are seriously gorgeous pictures. I really regret not hiring a photographer and just using my uncle for our wedding. He shoots food…not people. Pictures, that is. LOL

    Reply
  44. Alyssa @ Life of bLyss says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:19 am

    love, love, love, love, love it all! this all looks so beautiful. i love the moment with your family!

    Reply
  45. Katrina says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:40 am

    I’m crying at work now!!! The part about your mom really got me. :’ )

    Amazing post, amazing photography!

    Reply
  46. Leslie says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:41 am

    You look so beautiful in all of those pictures Julie! I love looking at them! It takes me back to that amazing weekend :).

    ps you know I’m not a fan of that lip stick picture 😉 haha

    Reply
    • peanutbutterfingers says

      December 8, 2010 at 10:44 am

      ah! i know… but i think you look gorgeous in it!!! seriously! 😀

      Reply
    • carlee says

      December 8, 2010 at 4:18 pm

      oh my goodness Leslie! Your ridiculous to not like that photo! I think it is beyond gorgeous and stunning!

      Reply
  47. Charlie says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:46 am

    Love the pictures! You’re gorgeous :).
    Love, love, love the shoes. Pink shoes is a really nice way to add a little color.

    Reply
  48. Nic says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:56 am

    Your photos are lovely!

    Reply
  49. pajama chef says

    December 8, 2010 at 11:04 am

    beautiful!!

    Reply
  50. Laura @ Tidbits says

    December 8, 2010 at 11:16 am

    You look absolutely gorgeous! – great photos and a great recap!

    ps. i watched your wedding video last night and totally started bawling. it was amazing.

    Reply
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