One of the best (and worst) parts about having people over is all the food that remains once the party is over. Of course I’m more than excited about the leftover goodies, but having lots of cookies, chips and dip around the house makes our apartment a very tempting place to live.
Today I brought a lot of the remaining goodies from our weekend BBQ into work for the freegans to enjoy.
Along with the pasta salad, I enjoyed tuna salad for a punch of protein.
My tuna salad contained:
- 1 can tuna
- 1 tbsp. light Miracle Whip
- 1 tbsp. Dijon mustard
- Chopped celery
- Chopped green pepper
- Cherry tomatoes
The two salads complimented each other perfectly and I am satisfied but not overly stuffed… Just the way I like to feel after a yummy lunch.
Now for the wedding ring talk…
Wedding Ring Effect
In an article I read on PsychologyToday.com, the author discusses the “wedding ring effect,” which refers to the belief that married men who wear a wedding ring are more desirable to women.
The belief says that this effect occurs because:
- A man who is married has already demonstrated the ability to commit to a long-term relationship
- Another woman has found him desirable enough to make him her long-term mate, making him appear all the more desirable
To be honest, this makes me really sad. I hope that women (and men) can respect the sanctity of marriage and the relationship a married man has with his wife (and possibly his children) enough to lay off the lovin’ on those who are committed.
This got me thinking…
1. Do you find men who are in a relationship more attractive?
2. If you are married or engaged, do you feel like men started treating you differently once you had a ring on your finger?
To be honest, I think a lot of men don’t even notice a ring on a woman’s finger.
This past weekend at Beer Fest, I was approached by a guy who romantically referred to me as “Yellow Dress” (How sweet! 😉 ) and struck up a conversation about his friend who was talking about “the girl in the yellow dress.” I was nice but told him that I was engaged and pointed to my ring. I don’t think he (or his friend, apparently) even realized I had a ring on my finger.
On the other hand, I have had a guy (who I honestly thought was really interested in Sadie!) stop mid-conversation and say, “Oh, you have a ring,” and move along his merry way. (Sadie gave this particular guy the bob-and-weave treatment and didn’t let him pet her… I think she knew his intentions and stayed loyal to her daddy).
I’d love to hear your thoughts on the “wedding ring effect!” For some reason I find it so interesting because I’ve always been the kind of girl who immediately puts guys who are married (or even in a relationship) in an “off limits” category, though I can see how they might appear more attractive if a woman hears about how wonderful they are to their wife or girlfriend.
Feel free to weigh in! 😀
(I have to admit, while writing this post I’ve been singing “If you like it than you shoulda put a ring on it!” in my head over and over again.)