As for the weekend, clearly our plans are fluid because we were not about to schedule anything when we had two sick kids on our hands. Assuming all boys are healthy, I’m sure we’ll get out of the house and fill our time with something fun. Chase is dying to go ice skating again so maybe that will find its way into our plans.
As for today, let’s dive into the first edition of Friday favorites in 2024! I began sharing this weekly series on the blog years ago as a way to focus on the little things in daily life that bring me joy and always love hearing a little bit about what you’re loving each week whenever you guys choose to share. I hope you all have a wonderful (healthy!) weekend!
Things I’m Loving Friday
As I sit at my desk and type up today’s blog post, I’m sipping out of my new Ember mug, so I suppose it’s only fitting it would make today’s list! I received an Ember mug from Ryan for Christmas because he knows I’m crazy about loving my coffee H-O-T. (I truly order my lattes from coffee shops “extra hot” because the milk in my whole milk lattes always seems to cool them down too much for my liking.) I’m also notoriously picky about mugs (I cannot handle stainless steel mug or tumbler interiors because they make coffee taste metallic to me) so I wasn’t sure how the Ember mug would go over (it’s ceramic coated) but I gave it a go and I’m happy to say I am loving it!
It’s especially nice when I’m sipping my coffee and trying to accomplish all the things in the morning and inevitably my coffee goes untouched. Coming back to my coffee cup to find the coffee still perfectly warm feels like magic! It’s amazing! (Random side note: I think this would be such a wonderful gift for a coffee or tea-loving new mom. I cannot tell you how many times I reheated my coffee or dumped it out because it got too cold during the baby days.) My one major gripe: I wish it was bigger. The biggest size available in the mug style with a handle (something else I’m crazy about) is 14 ounces and I wish they made an 18 or 20-ounce version for those of us who like loads of hot, foamy milk in our coffee. Despite it’s slightly-too-small size, it’s still quickly become the mug I find myself reaching for every morning.
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A Few Etsy Gifting Finds
Over the holiday season, I had a few standout Etsy orders I wanted to highlight here, as the talent level of these small businesses is next-level and made for some of my favorite gifts to give! I love Etsy so, so much for finding quality personalized gifts for loved ones. A few favorites from our 2023 Christmas:
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Mini Watercolor Pet Portrait of Kona
Our whole family was so sad when Kona passed away last fall, as we’ve all known and loved her since her puppy days when she was Ross’ dog when he was in law school. She then became became a beloved family pet to my sister and her children and captured all of our hearts with her happy-go-lucky personality, amazing tolerance toward our little ones and her silly antics with Sadie. Dogs are simply the best and leave behind such a void when they pass and I knew I wanted to do something small to honor Kona’s memory for Leslie and Ross for Christmas this year. The artist I found through the Dearest Delilah Etsy shop did an incredible job capturing Kona’s likeness and even included an additional portrait in my order which blew me away. It was a huge hit and I cannot recommend Rachael, the artist behind this stunning work, enough.
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Beginner Embroidery Project (Christ in the Manger)
This was another gift I gave to my sister! (Can you tell she’s one of my favorite people to shop for every year?) I made the design using a beginner embroidery kit I ordered through ShopRomRom on Etsy. I did my first ever embroidery hoop project a year ago using a beginner kit and when my sister admired my previous creation during her Thanksgiving visit this year, I filed the idea to make something similar for her for Christmas away in the back of my mind. When I browsed Etsy for a beginner kit to make for Leslie in early December, the Christ in the Manger kit immediately stuck out at me. It was stunning and perfectly captured the reason behind the holiday season in a design that still felt manageable to a super-beginner embroiderer like me. It was a fun project to work on leading up to Christmas and Leslie loved it!
This personalized leather bookmark was a stocking stuffer I ordered for Ryan and one he seemed to really love as it’s already found a place in the book we are currently reading aloud with Chase. I thought it had a simple, masculine look and had it personalized with the first initials of each member of our family.
Ryan has used a carabiner as his keychain for decades (he’s has the same beat-up blue one since we started dating) and I thought he might like an updated one for Christmas. I ordered this one through Etsy, again personalized with the first initial of each member of our family, and it quickly claimed the top-spot as his new keychain. I’ll consider that a small Christmas win!
I’ve already mentioned these ornaments on the blog but figured they deserved a shout out again! The Pepper ornament we had painted for Ryder and the husky ornament we had made for Rhett (to resemble his favorite stuffed animal) both came from Etsy shops. (Chase’s turtle ornament was not an Etsy find this year.) Both of our younger boys’ ornaments turned out better than I could’ve hoped and are such a wonderful addition to our Christmas tree!
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Girl, Forgotten by Karin Slaughter
My rating: B
Karin Slaughter… phewyyy. Her books are not for the faint of heart and apparently I forgot this fact as I dove into Girl, Forgotten. There’s a reason her mystery novels are so popular — they’re immediately engrossing and definitely keep you guessing — but I admittedly struggle with the detail and intensity of some of her words and the language used… and that comes from someone very used to reading lots of mystery and suspense novels. That being said, if you can get through graphic descriptions and extremely cringe-worthy language, her books are intriguing. I had no idea who was responsible for the death of one of the main characters in Girl, Forgotten for the vast majority of the book and my suspicions were only confirmed close to the very end of the novel. It’s a novel packed with a lot of characters and a plot that goes in a million different directions, making it a page turner that held my interest the entire time.
The book centers around the 1982 murder of good girl Emily Vaughn, the daughter of a prominent judge who, 40 years later, finds herself on the receiving end of some very personal death threats. Prior to her murder, Emily was pregnant and vehemently denied knowing the identity of her baby’s father. An arrest was never made following Emily’s murder and four decades later, US Marshal Andrea Oliver is assigned to protect Judge Vaughn. As Andrea learns more about Emily’s murder, her own motivations for solving this 40-year mystery come into play. Will the truth ever come to light? Will Andrea be able to protect Judge Vaughn? Will the the father of Emily’s baby ever be identified and the person who murdered her brought to justice?
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December 2023 Top 10
A year or so ago I began sharing a top 10 list at the end of every month as a way to give you guys a glimpse back into some of the blog posts you may have missed or some of my favorite finds you may have had on your radar that got lost in blogging and social media mayhem. See below for December’s top 10!
Blog Posts
- Oreo Peppermint Ice Cream Dessert
- Holiday Pretzels
- PBF Gift Guide 2023: For Him
- PBF Gift Guide 2023: For Her
- PBF Gift Guide 2023: Big Kids
- PBF Gift Guide 2023: Toddlers and Little Kids
- Recent Looks #5
- Egg White and Oatmeal Protein Pancakes
- Instant Pot Butternut Squash Chicken Curry
- Instant Pot Butternut Squash Beef Stew
Your Top 10 Favorites
- Quarter Crew Socks (The socks we’re all loving!! Extra comfy with a perfect thickness + they hit at a flattering spot on the leg.)
- Holiday Card Album (The way our family organizes and displays our past holiday cards. We love flipping through this one each holiday season and the boys especially love seeing our old cards from when they were babies.)
- TUL Gel Pens (I’m not being dramatic when I say these are the pens that put all other pens to shame. So good they’re worthy of gifting, hence why they popped up on my gift guides this year.)
- Nodpod Gentle Pressure Sleep Mask (The best thing to happen to my sleep in years.)
- Target Mock-Neck Pullover Sweater (aka the sweater I wore non-stop in December that’s as comfy as a sweatshirt)
- Custom Children’s Routine Chart (Our favorite for displaying the boys’ responsibilities)
- Satin Bow Hair Barrette (I’m here for the bow trend and love this one so much.)
- Big & Simple Christmas Coloring Book (Big picture color books are where it’s at with young kids.)
- Simply Christmas: A Busy Mom’s Guide to Reclaiming Peace of the Holidays (The devotional I read every holiday season. It’s simple and lovely and reminder that things don’t have to be perfect to be wonderful.)
- Custom Luggage Tag (A unique little stocking stuffer, perfect for regular travelers!)
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Friday Flashbacks
Book Recommendations by Category (Some of my favorites, organized by genre)
My Skincare Routine (The morning + evening skincare routine easy enough I actually stick to it)
Question of the Day
How is your 2024 so far? Anything special you’d like to highlight that is making you smile?
2024 is currently rough for us Iowans. Yesterday morning we had our first school shooting in a town only 20 min from our house. I was actually driving my girls to (a different) school when we met multiple law enforcement vehicles and the ambulance leaving our town. It is devastating and I find it even harder to get out of my own mind today after having to explain this to my 3rd grader. Since this incident directly affected us and the entire state went on lockdown, she wanted to know more (teachers did not get into it with them). I hated having to share this with her 🙁 We also talked about how incredibly hard it will be for the remaining children to move forward in that same building after what they just experienced. Hard start to a new year.
Oh Stacey, that is an absolute nightmare and I’m so sorry for you, your children, your community and the families impacted by the shooting. It’s every parents’ worst fear. My heart hurts deeply for you right now. <3
I loved your embroidery project! I’ve been wanting to order one but also curious and wondering what do you do with it when you are finished- did you frame it and hang it up?
We got one of the routine charts for our 2 year old who REALLY likes to help around the house. I want him to be excited about helping though at this age and it not to turn into a chore. Can you share what sorts of things you have on Rhett’s?
Thanks! Hope you’re all feeling good soon!
Yes!! For Rhett, it’s mostly things like putting away his bag/shoes/jacket when he comes home/back inside, putting dirty clothes in the hamper, bringing his dishes to the sink, etc. We have a “mom’s/dad’s choice” on there as well and make up new tasks for him daily based on this — stuff he wouldn’t do daily but might be able to handle (refilling Pepper’s food bowl, cleaning fingerprints off glass doors, etc.) Most of his stuff doesn’t *really* help us much at this age but we’re just hoping it helps build foundations of helping/contributing/being responsible.
Have you read Pieces of Her by Karin Slaughter? That’s the first book of the Andrea Oliver series and I thought it was better. I listened to it though which I feel is always different than reading!
TUL Gel Pens are still my favorite…now if I could just hide them from everyone else in the house!
Ha! I get this! Mine have a way of disappearing, too… 🙂
My husband got me an Ember mug a few years ago and it’s the best! But I agree, I wish it was larger.
Yesss! The latte drinkers out there need more room!